Thursday, February 11, 2010

Two types of people, times two [Bryan]

There are two types of people when it comes to vacation. First, there are those people who view vacations as a time for relaxation. These are people who like to go to resort destinations and spend a lot of time frolicking on beaches. These are people who like the idea of a cruise, where they float around in a boat for awhile, overeat, and sleep in. They also like to go to theme parks, where the goal is to "have fun." The idea behind the vacation, for these folks, is to take a break from real life and recharge the proverbial batteries. In the other camp are those who see vacations are opportunities for self improvement. These are people who travel for self-discovery or for individual learning. Such people tend to travel at a rather frantic pace, with a travel agenda filled with historical and cultural sites, especially museums. Natural wonders are also high on the list. They prefer not to be wined and dined, as in a cruise, but to figure out meals and travel arrangements on their own. Figuring out a different city, after all, is part of the challenge and attraction. They often come home from travel exhausted, but with a different view of themselves and of the world.

Either type of travel works well, although it may not work so well if traveling companions have different styles of travel. Although, sometimes, people with different approaches can help each other overcome the weaknesses of the other's approach. I am more in the second camp, while Ellie seems to be fine with either type of travel. We make pretty good traveling companions. She is always good at helping me to slow done.

This distinction roughly holds for reading habits as well. There are people who view reading as a form of entertainment. They see reading as a chance to check out, or escape, the world in which they find themselves. A book is a good book if they get engrossed in it, and if they lose track of time as they read it (a "page turner" is high praise). Such people largely focus on fiction, particularly modern novels, where it is relatively easy to get into a story. In the other camp are those who see reading as an act of self improvement. Reading is more a form of learning than entertainment. Such people prefer non-fiction, and often struggle through big books because it will be "good for them" to read those books. Often, such books are left unfinished. Fiction, when it is read, is usually in the form of "classic" literature. Books are judged by how much information they give or how they change the individual reader.

Again, I'm probably in the latter camp. When I read a novel just for fun, I get a bit restless. With so much to learn about the world, with some many interesting true stories out there, why spend time in a world of imagination?

3 comments:

Merkley Jiating said...

I am definitely the frantic vacationer and Sam likes to sleep all day! The cruise almost killed me because I felt like we weren't getting the most out of our money. Interesting thoughts about books. Is it better to be in one of those groups? Because if so, I think I am in the wrong one.
-Emily

sarah stitzlein said...

Bryan--you and I are in the same boat for both vacationing and reading. I'm not surprised. I think it's philosopher blood--a quest for knowledge and a mind that doesn't stop working.

Nollie said...

Bryan, you just recreated the exact conversation about travel that Andy and I had with his sister and a friend last weekend. We're trying to figure out what to do for our 10th anniversary, but have totally different travel styles. I'm type 2 and he's type 1, so how to mesh the two and make sure everyone enjoys themself? I'm also a type 2 reader in search of knowledge and self improvement, for the most part. I have a hard time just picking up a contemporary novel off the shelf because who knows if it will be worth the time spent on it? Whereas with most nonfiction, you can at least come away assured that you've learned something new. Any book recommendations?